Ikigai can be a gentle guide rather than a rigid framework, an approach for self-discovery and alignment, not a source of stress or self-reproach - find fulfilment without the pressure of perfection.
Love this really neat explanation (and reminder) about the guiding principles of Ikigai, Sarah, thanks!
You know what? Your piece inspired some contrarian thinking in me (so thank you even more for that!). I'm wondering…is there something to be said for trying the complete OPPOSITE of Ikigai? Not to refute it, but to support it, as another way of experimenting.
Eg, instead of combining something I love, something I'm good at, something the world needs, and something I can get paid for, what if I went about:
• (re)trying things I don't like (in case I find that I actually do like them)
• something I'm bad at (because I've little experience doing it)
• something that has no apparent value to the world (but is interesting to me)
• and something I don't need to worry about getting paid for (which frees me to get creative without worrying about it paying my bills)
I actually think this would be a cool essay to write. What do you think?
Thank you so much Harrison, what a thoughtful and interesting post, and i'm glad i inspired some contrarian thinking hehe ... that is a really cool way to flip thinking and/or test your beliefs in a different way... i'll definitely reflect and work through this exercise and/or essay!
The knitting metaphor is 💕. I'm going to hold onto that piece!
So glad that worked for you, thank you for lovely comment 💕
Love this really neat explanation (and reminder) about the guiding principles of Ikigai, Sarah, thanks!
You know what? Your piece inspired some contrarian thinking in me (so thank you even more for that!). I'm wondering…is there something to be said for trying the complete OPPOSITE of Ikigai? Not to refute it, but to support it, as another way of experimenting.
Eg, instead of combining something I love, something I'm good at, something the world needs, and something I can get paid for, what if I went about:
• (re)trying things I don't like (in case I find that I actually do like them)
• something I'm bad at (because I've little experience doing it)
• something that has no apparent value to the world (but is interesting to me)
• and something I don't need to worry about getting paid for (which frees me to get creative without worrying about it paying my bills)
I actually think this would be a cool essay to write. What do you think?
Thank you so much Harrison, what a thoughtful and interesting post, and i'm glad i inspired some contrarian thinking hehe ... that is a really cool way to flip thinking and/or test your beliefs in a different way... i'll definitely reflect and work through this exercise and/or essay!
Aw glad you resonate, let me know if you write anything about it or wanna bounce ideas :)